When you walk into a Singles Night, you’ll probably find Joerg Sauer smiling, listening, and gently drawing people into meaningful conversation. Joerg is a certified coach who has lived in Indonesia for almost two decades. After experiencing divorce himself and returning to the world of dating after more than 25 years, he knows firsthand the challenges many singles face.
“Tell us a bit about yourself, Joerg.”
I went through my own journey of being single again after divorce, and I realized how much pressure society puts on people—especially those over 30. For women in Indonesia, being divorced often carries an unfair stigma. Many carry emotional scars from difficult relationships or separation, yet they still long for love and connection. I deeply understand that pain, because I’ve lived it too.
In my own case, I had a strong limiting belief: that I could only be with someone from the same cultural background. That belief held me back from seeing possibilities right in front of me. Once I became aware of it, I started to challenge myself, open up, and connect in ways I hadn’t before. That’s the power of noticing patterns—we can shift them and create space for new beginnings.”
“What makes your approach unique?”
Coaching is different from therapy or mentoring. It’s not about fixing what’s ‘wrong’—because nothing is wrong with you. Instead, it’s about uncovering patterns, shifting perspectives, and finding the courage to take new steps. At my Singles Coaching Clinic, I keep it light and engaging, but also meaningful. We talk about topics that matter, like dating expectations, self-worth, and communication, and I’ll coach volunteers live so everyone can see what the process feels like.”
“Why partner with Social Expat?”
I’ve attended many Singles Nights myself and really enjoy the open and diverse atmosphere. Partnering with Social Expat allows me to give something back: not just the chance to meet new people, but also an opportunity for reflection and growth. It’s about starting the evening with curiosity and confidence.”
“What advice do you have for singles?”
First, know that just showing up is already an act of courage. Many people hesitate, but coming to the event with an open and curious mindset is the first step toward new possibilities.
Second, to the women—if you can, bring along a single male friend or two. Many men feel they have to appear strong, and because of that pressure, they often stay home. Inviting them helps balance the room and makes the night more engaging for everyone. Plus, having a wingman—or a wingwoman—can make starting conversations much easier.”
👉 Catch Joerg’s Dating & Singles Coaching Clinic before the next Singles Night:
🕠 5:30pm – Coaching Clinic | 🕖 7:00pm – Singles Night
✨ Your past doesn’t define you—every moment ahead is an opportunity to build the relationships that matter most.
Get to know more about Joerg’s Services and Stay in Touch
🌟 Coaching Services by Joerg Sauer
💞 Relationship Coaching
- 1:1 Private Coaching – 8 sessions over 6 months. Tailored support for singles (including divorced singles) to break patterns, rebuild confidence, and create meaningful relationships.
- Group Coaching for Singles – 6 sessions over 3 months. A safe, supportive environment to learn from others’ experiences, share reflections, and grow together.
👔 Executive & Corporate Coaching
- CEO Sounding Board – A confidential space for CEOs to think aloud, test ideas, and reflect on decisions without judgment. Focus on clarity, alignment, and resilience in the role of cultural anchor.
- C-Suite Coaching – Targeted coaching for executives navigating high-pressure leadership. Areas include stakeholder management, handling conflict and stress, and maximizing role impact within the leadership team.
- Group Coaching for Leaders – Cross-functional groups working on shared leadership challenges such as performance, impact, communication, collaboration, feedback, and effective 1:1 conversations.
- Executive Leadership Team Coaching – Multi-month journeys that transform leadership teams into cohesive, high-performing, and impactful teams—building trust, engaging in real debate, fostering commitment, strengthening accountability, and focusing on shared outcomes.
- Specialized Training & Facilitation – Topics such as conflict management, feedback culture, coaching skills for leaders, agile leadership, and organizational change.
📩 Get in touch with Joerg
- Instagram: @joergsauer_coach
- LinkedIn: joerg-sauer-coach
- WhatsApp: +62-821-14-879-436
- Website: morphosiscoaching.com
